collector.on('collect', async i => {
    if (i.customId === 'id_1') {
        row.components[0].setDisabled(true) //disables but_1
    }
    if (i.customId === 'id_2') {
        row.components[1].setDisabled(true) //disables but_2
    }
    interaction.editReply({ content: "Click a button", components: [row] });
})